Jessica is very close to me and my family – she’s been like an adopted sister for ten years. When she met Stephen at medical school a couple years ago, we loved him immediately and started secretly hoping that he would be "the one." They were perfect together – they understood each other’s sense of humor, they loved doing the same things, and they both wanted to be medical missionaries in South America. Jess vowed that first year that she would never marry him, that she was sure he would marry a wonderful woman…but it wouldn’t be her. We kept…